I’m so angry right now, I can’t even sleep…. Is it a crime to be quiet? Is it a crime to be an introvert? I’m not even that much of an introvert if not I’ll not be able to do my job effectively, I work as an auditor in an electricity distribution company so I talk to lots of people on daily basis…
My girlfriend thinks and believes I’m too quiet for her….at least that’s the only thing she complains about, to make things worse she doesn’t even talk to me again… when I call her cos we live in different cities after exchanging greetings she just goes mute.
God knows I have tried to improve our communication by trying to make her talk to me but she doesn’t want to change her attitude towards me.
I fell in love with her because I saw as a lively girl, someone who is outgoing. but now I feel so lonely, I struggle to call her nowadays. This evening when I called her and she went mute again I got mad, she had the guts to tell me there are many things going on in her life now that I do not know about, this girl talks with my uncle on the phone for hours but can’t talk to me for even 30 seconds. my uncle was her project supervisor. I am a good man by all standards at least I can wish my daughters to be treated the way I treat ladies.
I waited until when I’m ready for marriage before I started dating. She is actually my first and she is the only woman I have known as a man. I love her, respect her, 100% faithful to her, yet she is not satisfied.
I do not deserve such treatment at all, what do you guys think? Is there still something to hold on to in this relationship?
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