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Dear NGTrenders: I Am Finding It Hard To Love After My Man Died


Dear NGTrenders, one of our very own regular visitor by the name Cynthia needs our help and advise. The letter she sent to me reads:

Hello Friends,
My name is Cynthia, a 25years old Accountancy graduate. I have a huge problem that needs urgent attention & solution.
I was in a serious relationship with my boyfriend, and we were both head over heels in love with each other, until I lost him to the cold hands of death 2 years ago.
Problem is, I can’t seem to move on. I see him in everything and everywhere I go. He was my world and I was his.
After sometime, people, including my parents advised me to move on, and after much persuasion and self resolution, I finally moved on, or so I thought.
I met this handsome, nice, loving and peaceful man. He loves me more than anything. I know he loves me but I don’t love him as much as I wish I should. I don’t value anything he does for me. It is so bad that sometimes, I mistakenly call him my dead ex’s name.
I always hurt his ego although he does not show it. I want to put a stop to all these but I just don’t know how.
I want to love him cause he’s a nice, caring & lovable guy that truly deserves to be treated better but I’m never truly happy, no matter how hard he tries.
What can I do? Should I just let him go? How do people finally let go of their lost loved ones? I have prayed and prayed. I feel so bad each time I hurt this man. How do I stop finding fault in everything he does?
Please I need your practical advices.

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