Hi guys I have to open an account to let out this story.
My girlfriend of 5 years, she was 18 and I was 23 both students when we met. We have shared everything together, I mean everything u can possibly think of. She told me she can’t continue the relationship. That we can’t marry each other.
She met 2 pastors who told her we are not compatible with each other. One told her in 2014 and the other in 2016 of which she told me about both of them. But last 3 weeks she broke the ice on the grounds that .
1. she needs to choose her husband with all diligence.
That her grandmother has 2 husbands, her mum has 2 husbands and she can’t thread that path because those pastors told her we shall split if she marries me.
2. She doesn’t want me to hear that she got married to someone else.
Her mum doesn’t like me and doesn’t want me to marry her and recently she is pestering her to marry another man, her Pastor. This man talks with her every time, calls her, gives her and her mother gifts.
Well I give them gifts to my capacity too. But pastor is playing son-in-law game well because he (pastor) said God told him that she is his wife.
The pastor anyway happened to be a real pastor, I can attest to that, but I can’t vouch if his vision is from God or self induced.
But babe told me she has not made up her mind yet and that she didn’t break up with me to marry that man. That she will take her time to decide what she will do and maintaining a single status.
We all stay in the same neighborhood, she will see this and get angry but…
I need matured views on this issue.