Here goes nothing 😰 I met this guy in January, and we started talking, basically I had known him from school but we never used to talk, so we met this year at a friend’s party and we got talking, this went on for months.
Everything was fine, then about 3 months ago, he asked to date me, and I agreed cos apparently, I had a crush on him when we were in school. Before then, he told me he hadn’t been in a relationship for a long time, so he’s basically rusty, I’m like okay, I can make this work.
But I don’t like the way things are going right now, he doesn’t like to get into any sort of argument (I believe when we argue, we get to know what we like and don’t like so we’ll work on them), and when I try to be serious, he tries to wave it off, he doesn’t like to get serious and it kills me cos there are times we’ll need to discuss somethings but he won’t want to.
Anyways, few weeks ago he came to see me (he’s doing his masters degree) and while we were together some girl texted him but that didn’t even get to me, my head sparked when she called him, then I’m like “okay, what’s going on here?” Cos I found out he deleted his chat with her (did I forget to mention that they stay in the same compound in school).
Recently , he went for a party and got a lap dance from some random girl at school, ooooh that made me mad 😠!!! I’m like wow! He even said “it’s not a big deal” I don’t know if I’m just being paranoid, but I really need to know how to contain these issues.