Even if you claim you are not a jealous type you still do this once in a while either by error or willingly.
I remembered the day i did this, i was fingling with her phone, trying to set some applications she needed and then a whatsapp chat came in which i couldn’t understand.
I don’t want to be left in the dark, i had to open and see what had been said to understand, but thank God it is not the one that gives heart attack because that is what you can possibly get from spying into your spouse’s chat.
I don’t think it is doubt of trust to do this but not advisable.
It is not just men that do this, women fall prey too, i don’t want to say women do more, yet, they claim they will never touch your phone without your permission.
But immediately you come out of bathroom you will notice change of position of your device while the men will pray you get something to do in the kitchen and you forget your phone behind.
It is human, trust is not the issue but curiosity. We want to know what they are doing behind us to be sure if we are safe, yet, we know it is not right as it can cause HBP, unsettled argument and others of there kinds.
The question is ; have you ever spied on your spouse’s phone? Why?