While speaking to young aspiring actors and filmmakers at the Innovation Warehouse which took place in lagos recently, Nollywood actressOmotola Jalade Ekeinde spoke to participants about the high rate of divorce in celebrity marriages.
Offering up advise on how to young people in the industry can make their marriages work, she said,
THEY MUST BELIEVE IN YOU. IF YOU’RE A CHRISTIAN AND YOU MARRY SOMEONE WHO IS NOT BORN AGAIN THEN YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN. YOUR PARTNER NEEDS TO BE STRONGER THAN YOU. THEY ARE THE ONES GETTING THE AFTERMATH OF YOUR OWN ACTION.
CHOOSE A PARTNER WHO UNDERSTANDS ENTERTAINMENT. DON’T CHOOSE YOUR FAN. PERSONALLY, I DON’T BELIEVE IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. PICK SOMEONE WHO SEES YOUR HEART, YOUR SOUL, SOMEONE WHO SEES THE REAL YOU AND NOT AFRAID TO TELL YOU ABOUT YOUR FLAWS.
She also added,
DISCIPLINE IS KEY. EVERYONE WANTS FREEDOM BUT TOO MUCH FREEDOM IS BAD. BE DISCIPLINED.
IT’S BETTER TO BE AN ENEMY TO A WORK PARTNER THAN TO YOUR FAMILY. LEARN TO SAY NO! WE ARE LIKE NURSES AND DOCTORS IN THE INDUSTRY BECAUSE WE CAN BE CALLED UPON AT ANYTIME.
She also spoke out against “the casting couch” (sexual harrasment) in the entertainment industry,
SOMETIMES YOU WILL GET A ROLE FOR GIVING YOURSELF OUT BUT YOU WON’T BE ABLE TO RETAIN IT. IF YOU BECOME FAMOUS IT WILL LATER HUNT YOU. BUT DON’T RUN AWAY FROM YOUR SEXUALITY, DON’T SHY AWAY FROM WHO YOU ARE, ENJOY WHO YOU ARE, COME ON THERE BUT COME OUT WITH SUBSTANCE.