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Hi NGTrends Readers,
I had a miscarriage at nine weeks earlier this month. We had only known about the baby for a little less than a month and it was unplanned but we were still really excited. We told both sets of our parents and I told my very best friend, but aside from that no one knew, so we were at least saved from that embarrassment. It was, and still is, heartbreaking for both of us but I think one of the worst parts is the wedge it’s driven between my fiance and I. My doctor said to wait until I stopped bleeding for s8x, but after that it’d be totally fine, and it’s been weeks now. I’ve tried to initiate s8x, I don’t even know how many times, and my fiance keeps blowing me off. He says he’s afraid of hurting me. I don’t know what it’s about, and I don’t know how to reconnect with him. Our s8x life was very, very healthy before this. And now it’s a dead bedroom. Anyone have any advice?