One of the most common misconceptions about men with commitment issues is that they don’t commit and would never get married. Au contraire. In fact, even the most commitment-phobic guys DO, in fact, walk down the aisle. And for the women who marry them, this is a nightmare of near epic proportion.
Imagine being married to someone who refuses to make decisions or can’t fully engage with you as his wife. Sound awful? For many women, it’s reality.
One would assume that when someone gets married, the person gives all of himself or herself both physically and emotionally. However, the giving of oneself fully in a marital commitment means making oneself vulnerable. The person has to love completely and trust completely, or the act of marriage is frightening and uncomfortable.
If it sounds terrible, it’s because it is. We talked to experts and gathered 9 signs your husband might be a commitment-phobe.
1.) He rarely initiates s*x.
S*x, at its best, is an expression of the love between two people. When you are in love, it is also an expression of commitment and can bring up intense feelings. A person with commitment issues will avoid having that connection.