But why do men cheat? What are they looking for when they cheat? Is it because of the Intimacy or control? Here’s what I’ve found through research things men are looking for when they decide to enter into an extramarital affair — unconsciously in many cases. (It’s really not just about the s8x! Seriously!)
Some men may find the routine life to be tedious and dull. These men find it easier to shift dominance or primacy to another relationship and feel the spark outside to be a thrilling option; instead of finding ways of charging their relationship. It becomes present moment for gratification versus the hard job that they will have to do in their marriage to resolve an issue. The extra-marital relationship provides them with a ready made and fresh experience, which is appealing enough to take the risk.