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Hi NGTrends Readers,
Eleven months ago, I had my first dream about having s8x with my boss, and I really (really) liked it. I sought advice back then, and tried to follow it (stop wearing fancy perfume to work, check what I wear, etc.) but all too often even now, I catch myself wondering what my boss will think of what I am wearing. I work with my husband too, so I justify it by telling myself that I am dressing a certain way for him, but that’s not true most of the time.
I don’t think I ACTUALLY want to have s8x with my boss, by the way. But I have dreamed about it several times, and sometimes I think about it at work. It makes me feel good when he gives me attention, and I often seek out attention from him. I recognize this is likely not the best behavior, but it seems harmless so I can’t bring myself to stop.
My husband travels often for the business. I fantasize about hanging out with my boss while my husband is out of town. Its like, I want him to hit on me, just so I can turn him down. I want to go to lunch with him just to hang out, because I know my husband would not approve if he were home. I have zero interest in cheating on my husband. But these fantasies won’t go away. I should add that my boss and I work very closely, our offices are adjacent and 50% of my job is projects with my boss. I am just rambling now. I just needed to get this out and maybe someone will have some advice.