S8x for s8x’s sake is fun and everything, but eventually everyone needs love. Sustaining love. Passionate love. Love that makes you a grilled cheese with aged cheddar and gruyere the morning after beautiful show with the fellas.
But in order to get this kinda love you’re gonna have to work. You gotta be true, you gotta be legit, you gotta be masculine and you have to be serious about giving the love you want returned to you.
None of this stuff matters if you’re a sockpuppethead a*shole who enjoys humping and dumping chicks for sport. Take your bullsh*t low self-esteeem-having a*s elsewhere until you figure out what it means to be a man that truly loves a woman. When you figure it out, come back here and learn you some shit, bro.
Men and women are both attracted to certainty in a relationship. The more a man feels like his partner is in it for the long haul, the more ready and able he is to be able to open up to her (assuming he is equally invested in her). But security goes deeper than just the fact that you won’t leave him. The security that he feels ties back in to several of these points. He feels secure in knowing that you approve of him and where he is in his career. He feels secure and loved when you touch him non-sexually throughout the day. He feels secure when he is allowed to have his guys’ nights away from you and you don’t feel the need to call or text him every half hour to check in.
And he feels secure with a partner who takes steps to love him in the way that he most needs.