Well here is the thing darling, you jump through hoops anytime you repeatedly make it very obvious you are giving in your all. It is just that simple. Lets check out the break down and what to do to stop this annoying act, you do not want to be taken for granted now!
1. Do not talk for hours on the phone before your first date. Be sassy. Make your plan or arrangement to meet and then politely end the conversation.
2. Do not discuss deep issues in the beginning. Don’t use catch phrases from, therapy like cathartic, processing,triggering,owning it, or inner child. Don’t make chicken soup and tell him you wanna midwife each other’s soul.