It’s in our nature to disagree, ,more than we agree on things. Every individual is different, every person has their own point of views on life and how to live it, and when two people get into a relationship they start sharing a life together, and that’s when the fights slowly start to happen. It’s perfectly normal to fight your significant other, but the fights should not get out of hand and should be controlled by one of the two. I’m going to mention some of the most common relationship fights, because these fights can often lead to harsh breakups (I’ve seen them happen and also been through a few). The point of this article is to prepare you guys for the negativities that come with every relationship and I’ll try my best to teach you how to deal with those negativities. Let’s begin.
This technique might seem to work on your partner but remember, by giving your partner the silence treatment is just a really bad idea for the following reasons;
A. You are making them used to your silence. No matter how much they love you, at some point, they will become used to your silence and for them putting a permanent silence to your problems won’t be a problem. As you yourself have slowly conditioned them to live without your presence, same goes for someone who breaks up and makes up every other day.
B. Once, they get used to you treating them like this, they will not feel that they need to stop themselves from doing something that you might not like. For the simple reason that when you give the same reaction every time, they sort of become OKAY with it. Not that they don’t care, not that they are bad people. Just because they have been made used to something, they can now take that silence without feeling bothered.