Well I realized that sometimes this is one of the hardest things for women to understand because for some reason society has dumbed down men so much that the thought is that s.ex for men is just some simple on/off switch that doesn’t need to be handled with any care or connection. While se.x is highly physical for men, the more mature a man becomes, the more there seems to be to his se.xual story. So, here are a few reasons he may NOT be having s.ex with you.
1. He’s lost his confidence
For many men, s.ex is all about confidence. If we feel like we are satisfying you then we will want to keep doing it. On flipside, if we sense s.ex with us is just another task for you, or if you are not engaged and come across as more worried about us finishing so that you can get to choir practice, then, sometimes our confidence goes out the window.Ladies, I know you think that for us it is all about an orgasm but trust me when I tell you a man wants to satisfy his wife. Fellas, if your confidence is wavering, are you willing to have that vulnerable and open conversation about why that’s so? Are you willing to let your wife know what’s going on instead of just becoming distant or seeking other women to satisfy that confidence boost? Hmmmm.