1. She Maintains Her Independence
It does not matter if she is the CEO of a company or a waitress at KFC. She earns an honest living. She has honor and she is not standing there with her hand out.
2. She Does Not Purse Him
The moon and the sun and the stars don’t revolve around him. She does not make her date with him when her horoscope advises that his big Mercury is about to retrograde in her little Venus. She does not chase him or keep tabs on him. He is not the center of the world.
3. She Is Mysterious
There is a big difference between honesty and disclosure. She is honest but does not reveal everything. She is not verbally putting her cards on the table. Familiarity breeds contempt and predictability breeds boredom.
4. She Leaves Him Wanting
She doesn’t see him every night or leave long messages. She is not on a first-name bases with his secretary in one week. Men equate longing with love. Longing is good.
5. She Does Not Let Him See Her Sweat
She keeps communication from getting messy and avoids communicating when upset. When she clears her head, she is succinct and speaks in a “bottom line” way.