A man taking a new relationship is like a young boy opening a new jigsaw puzzle for the very first time. If he opens up the box and the puzzle is already put together, all the fun and exictment is taken out of it. But if the kid has to think, imagine, strategies, and put all the little pieces together, his mind is being stimulated. And the little boy is tickled pink.
The mental challenge is not “Can I get her to sleep with me”? The mental challenge is , “Can I get and keep her attention”?
When it comes to securing a man’s interest in commitment, your best strategy is to behave as if you like him, but you are not that interested in locking him down. The objective is not to be standoffish (unsociable or unfriendly), just low key honey. The lower the profile, the more he will come in for the kill. And by “low profile” I mean, appear happy to see him, just do not assume the role of his girlfriend. When you do not step into that role, he will lower his guard and begin to purse you.