Within the past few years, guys having a “side chick” has reached an all time high. There are songs, movies, and even books about being the other woman, which is pretty messed up. You’d think men would “keep it 100” and tell you if they weren’t ready to be in a relationship with only one person (or that he’s actually already with someone when you meet). Instead, they’ve gotten a lot more clever and underhanded in their tactics and they know how to keep their girlfriends and their side pieces separate. Also, being a side chick is no longer an embarrassment to some women, which gives men more reason to have one. Here are a few signs that he’s actually in a relationship with someone else and you are just his side piece of meat…
1. He always has his phone on him.
For one thing, if you were really relationship material in his eyes, he probably wouldn’t be glued to his phone all the time. We’re not saying you’re definitely a side chick just because he’s constantly texting or Tweeting or posting status updates, but there’s probably something going on if he won’t let you look at his phone. Beyond that, you’re probably a side chick if you text all the time but never talk on the phone, but you’re definitely a side chick if he has you saved under a fake name. We don’t personally know any guys who use multiple phones, but that should be considered an automatic “yes” if you’re wondering if you’re a side chick.