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Am newly wedded 5months to be precise please help save my marriage Am 24 year old lady, I met my bf who’s now my husband in a eatery near my school we got talking and I liked his person,he’s cute and above all he works in a bank to cut it all short he’s just perfect for me,we started dating till he invited me over to his house, I was so glad that at least I will get to meet with someone in his family although he told me his brother stays with him.
That evening I visited, his brother wasn’t home not quit long we started talking he walked in geez this guy his even looking more handsome than my bf the way he smiled at me just melted my soul,we both greeted and he went into his room, seeing him walk alone into his room just make me start fantasizing about having him, it took me few minutes to realize what I was doing,he later came out and my bf formally introduced him to me I was so shocked to know he was running his PGD program in my school and sometimes he stays somewhere in an apartment he rented off campus just for the purpose of his program, he casually gave me the address and I stored it in my head,before leaving I requested for his number so I can call him to know when he’s in school he obliged my bf only smiled at our conversation.
A week after I placed a call through to him and asked if he was on campus he replied no but will let me know when he’s in,the next day he called me and said I should meet him at the park on campus I quickly rushed down to see him,we greeted and he hugged me,his hug was just the best I’ve ever had.
After talking for a while he said he’s leaving for his base off campus, hun opportunity I said to myself then I turned to him and ask if he could let me come with him so I will get to know where he stays, he said sure; get into the car so we drove down to his place,the closeness got closer till I achieved my aim which is we ended up having se.x,I wish he’s the one am dating but I just cannot do anything about it.
I got married to my husband a year later but through out this period I and his younger brother kept having affairs behind him not only that, I took in for him several times but had to use pills to get rid of it. until this last one I tried all the available pills but to no avail,now am confused on what to do am currently staying off campus for the fear of going back home I lied to my husband I will be writing my exams and so will be staying over for that period he agreed because he promised to always respect my decision, when he came visiting he noticed changes in me but not to the point of suspecting am pregnant.
His brother wants the pregnancy out at all cost and even threatened to kill me if I don’t get rid of it and fast too, he gave me huge sum of money to go get it off but am just too scared to go under the knife for fear of dying as a result of betraying my husband, what do I tell my husband, am newly wedded 5months to be precise, my life is just doomed right now, I know if he finds out am headed straight for a divorce because his family won’t accept this mess. I need your advice is There anyway I can maneuver this without going under the knife and save my marriage.
Pls do advice on what to do before my husband finds out.