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Hi NGTrends Readers,
I had the best s.ex of my life with my landlord – and it’s making me wonder whether I can marry my fiancé.
I am 25 and my boss is 78. I got off with him at our compound. I knew he liked me – we’d been flirting for weeks. One Night We started chatting, then kissing, and we were all over one another. We had the most amazing night of s.ex ever. I have had good se.x before but this was something else. I know nothing will come of it, as he’s married and he wife is very goood to me …. but it’s making me think seriously whether I can stay with my fiancé.
He is 23, a lovely guy, kind and thoughtful, but he is very small s.exually compared to other guys I’ve slept with. He doesn’t have any hang-ups about it so I don’t say anything which might upset him.
When we make love there is no foreplay, and it’s all over within minutes. It is not pleasurable for me and I never think, “Wow, that was fantastic.” He is pressing on with arranging our wedding but I can’t get up any enthusiasm. I don’t even know if I can stay faithful, though I know he’d be a great husband. I love my fiancé but I also love good se.x and he bores me in bed.Should I stay and just deal with being unsatisfied, or drop him because of my craving for better se.x with my landlord ?