A number of men spoke with NGTrends about keeping the passion alive, those who are married or have been married. During this part of interview, I always felt like it was a word game. I said “romance”, and they thought s*x. I said ‘new experiences”, and they thought about s*x. I said,”passion” they thought s*x. I said, “variety” and they respond with a question,”You mean s*x, right? Given this, the most obvious thing you would want a woman to take away from a conversation on the subject of how to keep the passion alive is with respect to….you guessed it s*x! While men are less likely to talk about feelings, they will need to feel connected with the person they are in love with and it’s equally important for them to keep the magic “spark”. When a man stops having s*x, he starts to doubt his manhood, and his desirability gets called into question. It isn’t about the physical act.
Here are some men’s view on how to keep the romance alive….
1. A guy needs to always feel that he is desirable to his wife or girlfriend. We need that feedback”.
2. Do something different in bed. Anything. As long as its different from what he’s used to. The element of surprise is a turn-on. If you always go on top, do it sideways.”