When a flirt fishes for a man, she fishes merely for the sport,” goes a popular saying. Nevertheless, realizing that a flirt is unlikely to make serious moves on your boyfriend does little to alleviate the disrespect that you feel when she flaunts her witty personality and gorgeous smile for him. Realizing that you can never change someone else’s behavior, however, can help you to put the ball in your own court, where you’ll decide how to play the game.
Here are some ways to handle another woman flirting with your man …
1. Act Confident.
If the girl’s motive for flirting with your boyfriend in front of you is to make you feel insecure, behaving that way gives her the satisfaction she’s looking for. Don’t give the flirt any more or less attention than she would otherwise receive from you. Likewise, don’t cling to your boyfriend or show other physical signs of insecurity.