You’ve been staring at her from a distance for quite sometime and you’re seemingly undecided whether or not to make the move to approach her. Perhaps, she is even someone you know and have butterflies in your tummy whenever you talk and relate with her and you’ve not been able to break the “Jinx” and tell her how you feel. Every single guy on the face of the earth including myself can relate to this fear that comes along with asking out a girl we are crushing on. Be it the first time you would ask a girl out or the fact that you want to ask out some one you perceive as beyond you which makes you nervous, trembling and unstable, we have come out with ideas that would help reduce the effects of your fear and guarantee a smooth sail.
These ideas are not 100% foolproof but they are designed in a way that when applied, your nerves would be steadied and you can inadvertently build on the experience to conquer future occurrences.
1. Remember not to rush things
It is important to remember that being in a hurry will do you no good. Learn to take things slow as rushing things will definitely send the wrong signals to her. She may think you are after s8x alone and probably keep a distance from you. Try and acquaint yourself with her before you proceed to get intimate with dates.