1. If a woman doesn’t were her heart on her sleeve, she comes off as less emotional and more appealing. It makes the relationship go smoothly. For example a guy has to go to work. It is not that he doesn’t want to spend time with a woman, it is just that a lot of time he can not. So when a woman gives you room to live your life without getting upset, you will feel she is adding much more to your life.
2. I like a woman who is quiet at-times because then you are not sure what she is thinking. She will seem more secured with herself, like she has control over herself and her emotions. You want to be with a person who can think before she speaks.
3. Some women seem defensive or guarded, and that can be viewed as insecurity, also. There was a woman who turned me off even before we went out. She was so concerned about protecting herself that she told me me what she would not tolerate o our first phone conversation. She gave me this warning based on what happened to her with her last guy. We had not even gone on our first date and already she was laying down the law.I had not even made a traffic violation and she already sentenced me to death. C’mon, all I did was ask her out on a date.