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Dear NGTrends Readers,
I will try to be honest here because I need advice. I am a very social person (I believe this will be the best way I can express the kind of person I am without sounding bad) and I associate myself with only sociable people so that should tell you the kind of friends I have. I had known my best friend since my secondary school years and we were so close we even attended the same institution. We always had an unspoken law that family out-of-bounds to everyone. We never sat down to agree on it but we kind of treated everyone”s family like they had terminal disease and we were safer not getting close to them and I loved the way things were. I always believed that my sister was better with another man than any of that were around me. I was blessed with the opportunity to go aboard and I took it. I was there for about 4 years then was informed that my sister wants to get married. I flew down to meet my in-law only to see it was my closest friend. Seeing him made me remember what we did when we were younger and the fact that he wants to do those things with my sister is very disturbing. I have shouted and declared but both family have made up their minds to move on with the wedding. I know how my sister”s life will be if I let them get together so I am strongly against it. Please someone advice me, what else can I do to stop this wedding from taking place.