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Just came across your site and decide to share my story with hopes for useful advice. I am a 29 years old lady working in one of the oil companies in Niger. Somewhere along the line I started sleeping with my boss, though I had a rule not to have anything to do with a married man but everything happened so fast. He treats me really nice anyway (p.s he is very wealthy). Few months ago I met a nice young guy and we started dating and I really like him. We spend time some weekends together and take pictures too. One evening I went for drinks with my boss and while he was talking to me I was distracted because I was looking at a picture of my boyfriend and I. He took my phone and saw the picture the next words he said were “so you know my nephew?” I almost passed out. Updates and scrolling through my pictures it became obvious I was romantically involved with him. He threw my phone at me and walked out. Now I am confused. I have been avoiding my boss at work . Just yesterday he sent me a text saying he would never allow his favorite nephew end up with a girl like me. Should I call his bluff or tell my boyfriend before he does? Please I really need your advice.