Is she blowing hot one minute, and cold the next? Here’s a guide for what you can do when the woman you want is playing hard to get. Let’s face it. Dating is more like a game, no matter how much we glorify it with books, songs, and films. And worse, think of it as a poker game where players are suspicious of the other who’s trying to guess their next move and always keen on putting themselves in an advantage. In the end, the goal is to win and take everything. Men have often complained of the opposite sex of playing hard to get. Accept it. Evolution has put women at a considerable advantage in a way that they won’t have a problem getting partners. Men however, were given the enormous task of wooing and pursuing, not to mention the competition from other guys. But there’s a reason why it may seem like she’s toying with your ego. Remember, relationships are not like your regular Hollywood summer chick flick where the guy impresses and wins the girl immediately. Women, who are in advantage of choosing from a list of candidates, have the leisure to put you through their little mind games and tests to see if you deserve her company.
Why does she play hard to get?
Simple. Before you buy a car, you’d like to take it for a test drive, right? Finding the potential partner works in the same way. And why wouldn’t it? Think of it: relationships require a person to invest time, resources, and emotion to make it work. And there’s that chance that it wouldn’t work out in the end, no matter how many anniversaries you count. Therefore, there is a need to be sure at the very beginning. Playing hard to get is one way for women to determine if their potential partner would be up to the task. She needs to know if you are genuinely interested in her and that you’re not just some sloppy, needy drunk who merely wants a one night stand.
Things to remember before making a move
Hold up mate, before you read the tips section, there are some really important things you should consider before jumping to conclusions.