If you have finally caught the eye of your crush, you should do everything in your power to hang onto him. But getting a man interested and keeping him interested are two different things so you will need to come up with a few simple strategies. There are a lot of ways to make yourself dreamy and desirable in your man’s eyes, you just have to remember a few ways to keep his interest aroused. Most of the times, guys want a woman who is envied by the other girls and who is desired by all the other men. Here are ways to keep a guy interested in you:
1. Keep him intrigued.
If he likes what he knows so far, he’ll make sure to come around more often to find out more. Don’t be a completely open book, unless that’s who you are naturally. Give the relationship time to simmer, and space out some of your revelations so that you still have the ability to surprise him.
- Maintain a little bit of mystery. Don’t tell him every little thing you’re doing, every place you’ve been to, every person you’ve seen. Even if you didn’t want to be a little mysterious, sharing every little detail about your past and your whereabouts is likely to be draining to a man.
- Keep some surprises up your sleeve. Being hunters, explorers, and daredevils, men naturally love surprises. If you schedule a surprise — going skydiving, for example, or a cruise — don’t be afraid to just whisk him away and not tell him about it until he’s right in the thick of it.