Men rarely take it as a compliment when you bend over backward or become too agreeable. Men want to feel special, and when you are too nice he feels ordinary, because he assumes you’d acquiesce and become a yes yes person with any man. Most girls are given the wrong information they are taught the following:
- If I show him I love him every few hours, it will sink in and love me more.
- If I ‘go along to get along, he’ll think we are more compatible.
- If I sacrifice myself, I will better our relationship.
- If I always agree with him, he will think more highly of my opinions.
- If I look good, I will get the respect I want.
- If I double my efforts, it will double his appreciation.