Want to keep your marriage just as sexy as it was on your honeymoon? Here are some tips:
1. What Does SEXY Mean to You?
When we asked from experts in psycology, we came back with this fun acronym for S.E.X.Y.
S is for safety- Without safety, emotional and otherwise, you can’t have a marriage. Safety means protecting your spouse’s feelings.
E is for energy – You have to invest energy into your marriage, sexual and otherwise. It’s not 50/50, it’s 100/100 percent.
X is for X factor – It’s the wildcard. Surprise your spouse in the way that makes the person feels X-tra special: flowers, surprise sexual romps, picnics, trips, etc.
Y is for yes – Forget the computer and cell phone, and spend quality time with your loved one. Try to eliminate “No, I don’t have time” from your vocabulary for a bit and just say yes, as long as it’s not offensive or abusive.
“Remember, SEXY is the relationship — mind, body and soul.” “SEXY is when all three come together to enhance each person and create a 1+1=3, meaning that the collective we becomes more than who we are individually.”
2. Have an affair … with your partner.
Having an affair with your spouse can bring back the feelings of excitement and closeness—not to mention the smoking-hot s*x—that you had when you first met, Love says. So send each other sexy texts when you least expect it, buy racy lingerie, sneak away for a nooner at a hotel, or meet at bar and pretend you don’t know each other. “Tap into that playfulness and passion—and you’ll start looking at your partner in a new, sexy, light.”