1.Lack Of Clarity
If you don’t know what you want in life good men will pass you in life while you are still trying to make up your mind. There are lots of good men around you, if you open your eyes and come out of your indecisiveness, you will see and connect with them. There is a time in your life that you have to make a choice to get married or remain single for a very long time. If you don’t make that decision the opportunity will pass you by and you will be forced to wait on another opportunity to come your way in future. The problem is you will never know when the opportunity will come your way again. It may be early or come really late. If you are really serious about getting married make a decision. Choose who you want and make a commitment to that relationship.
2. Greed For Money
A money based relationship is all about the money you wanna get from the person you are dating, in courtship with or plan to marry. It revolves around the enticement of the material things that money affords. The instinct and tendency to first seek security and protection in a relationship is natural. We want to ensure that the person we are connect with will be beneficial to us in some way. But when we allow this instinct alone to determine our choice of a partner we will be controlled by money and material things not love, not affection. Don’t forget money can never be the solution to all your issues in life. We all want and need love. If all you seek from your lover is money he will be your Demi-God, his words will be the final authority on any and every issue in your life.