“Unfortunately I am still in love with my ex but my ex is not in love with me or may be my ex is. what a mess.What should I do now?”.If you ever found yourself thinking like this or if that even sounds a little like you, then you should know today, you are not the only one.You will not believe a good number of people still have touching feelings about their past love.It is also a fact that if you are feeling like this probably your ex too is feeling the same no matter what he/she says.That how ever is true in cases where your ex really did love you ones.
But how can you find out if your ex still love you, should you call them and let them know? Or, should you keep your distance and play it cool and hope they’ll realize that they still love you?
Instead of risking humiliation by pouring your guts out to your ex – right before they introduce you to their new love, take things slow and get a lay of the land. This can be done in several ways, you can ask your friends to discreetly ask around about your ex. They can find out if they’re seeing anyone or if they’ve been going to the same places that the two of you used to go (if so, this could be a sign that they’re hoping to ‘bump’ into you. Especially if it’s a place they never went before the two of you got together). Just encourage your friends to use discretion. If your friends are the type of people who don’t have a real strong grasp on discretion, this may not be the best approach for you to try.
Another way to find out if your ex has any feelings for you still, is to ask them. Again, discreetly. As we discussed above, you don’t want to take the chance of being humiliated so instead of coming right out and asking use subtlety to find out. Call them up, say ‘hi’ ask what they’ve been up to. It’s all very casual and you’re not committing to anything, you’re just trying to be friendly. It can be hard to take it slow when all you can think is ‘I’m still in love with my ex and my ex might love me too’ but you have to.