Listen, not every relationship is perfect. Each relationship is its own relationship in its own right. Every relationship doesn’t have a title (sometimes titles are the precursor to the end) and not every relationship makes sense to everyone else (everyone in your business is typically the precursor to the end). Despite all of that, I’m sure that things are confusing to both parties involved. Many of us think that men lack the ability to pick up on hints but we neglect that at times women are just wondering, “What does he mean?” I believe women do this to protect themselves and figure out where to do. They want to know the signs that the situation is headed in the right direction. It’s not easy to decipher but there are some simple signs that the relationship is going in the right direction…
1. His s*x is emotional
C’mon you guys know exactly what I’m talking about. There are times when you know that the s*x is just that… s*x. There are other times when you can tell there is an emotional connection there and it’s not just spontaneous carnal expressions.
2. Your boyfriend believes in you, and you believe in him.
He talks to that part of you that you forget when you doubt yourself. He reminds you who you are. He has a clear vision of your potential and nurtures it into existence. You don’t talk about him behind his back. You don’t complain to your girlfriends about him in a way that you wouldn’t say to his face. You don’t post his shortcomings on social media. You believe he is a whole and complete person who solves his own problems and stands on his own two feet, even if you aren’t there to support him.