1. Always Picking Holes In Everything Your Woman Does – Fault Finding
Many men in an attempt to establish their dominance and leadership of the home make the blunder of finding fault in everything their woman does and scolding her for it. This is retrogressive. It does not help at all. It has killed a lot of potential relationships that would have ended up in a sweet marriage. No one can be like you. No one can be perfect as you expect or do things the way you do them. You must always remember this as you relate. Do not forget that the woman was given to the man to help him in life. Therefore, give her a chance to perform that responsibility by being more accommodating and not hostile to her. It may take some time for her to catch up and measure up to your standard, so give her some time. If you as a man does not like all you have seen in her, and after talking about it to her nicely about some of your concerns (there are some habits that must really go that are very bad), you find she is adamant about making any changes, either you get used to it, or you quit the relationship.
2. You Might Actually Be Scared Of Her Or Intimidated By Her
I hate to even bring this one up, but some of you know it’s true so let’s just get it out of the way. Guys tend to want to be in control and the truth of the matter is…feminine energy is all about flow. Men can’t really hold back the “flow” of the tides, and feminine energy can’t effectively be controlled long-term either. Tougher guys than you have tried to control it but it doesn’t work. A smart man knows how to channel that energy instead. Sometimes it’s like a storm. It can be a perfectly beautiful day, and the next thing you know, the clouds appear, the skies get dark and all hell breaks loose. Rather than controlling it, you ride it out, respect it, and know it’s all part of the cycle of life. There’s no sunshine without rain; no happiness without grief; no black without white. The good news is that on the other side of the storm, the sun comes back out, and life is beautiful again.
3. You Don’t Bring Her Presence
No, not that kind of presents. I’m talking about a gift of another kind. I’m talking about the same qualities that make YOU feel good. You know how it feels when you’re grounded, centered and on top of your game? You’re crystal clear on who you are and what you want. You say what you mean and you mean what you say. You stand firm and you’re unwavering in the face of resistance. Sounds great, right? Well, as good as it feels to you, women who navigate by feminine energy love and crave that even more than you! It’s hot, and it literally makes the ladies swoon when you hold that space. It makes them feel safe and protected because she trusts that you have what it takes to be her rock. By the same token, every time you act indecisive, fearful, uncertain, or all over the place, it breaks that connection and makes her lose attraction, untrusting, and even repulsed. This is a HUGE one, guys. It literally can make you…or break you.