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Dear NGTrends Readers,
My name is Tolani, I am 31 years old, this is my true life story and I need you NGTrends readers to help me with your candid advice. My husband and I is been married for the past 4years, we started seeing each other since I was in my 300level and now I am a successful banker. My husband is also a banker, he got the job through my father. A year after our marriage he started acting all funny, things he doesn’t do during courtship he started doing them, he beats me, he womanize, he drinks to stupor, he turned me into his s*x machine and lots more.. At the long run I became pregnant in the first year of our marriage ( twins) according to the scan. We were home together on this bad weekend and his bad behavior came on again he gave me the beating of my life, after stressing to wash our cloths,clean the house and cooking. The cause of the beating was because I prepared yam for him instead of pounded yam or wheat, but I was to tired to stress much I was really heavy and weak. Because of this beating I was in false labour he had to rush me down to the hospital, getting to the hospital this bitter day I had to go to the labour room or I will die so the doctor said. I gave birth to dead premature children. My innocent babies, gone all because of this man called my husband, all because of the word love. Hmm!!! He apologized after the whole incident, believe me I forgave him, he stopped the beating for a while then he continued again. I endured the pain,I endured the agony because he is my husband and I love him. Now the issue on ground is that he came home some weeks ago with a pregnant woman, my own house I bought with my money,my sweat. The most painful part is that his parents, his family are in support, they are really backing him up.
I couldn’t withstand the pain I had to pack out of the house. Now because of him I have lost everything, everything I have worked for and for the past years after the still birth I had never gotten pregnant. I was sacked because of this man called my husband. It hurts really, it really really hurts!!! Because I really love him…. Where do I start my life from? What can I do? Please I need your candid advice…