For someone who’s still single himself John Dumelo knows a lot about being in a happy marriage.
The actor took to his Instagram to wish his close friend and colleague, Majid Michel a happy “Vows Renewal Day”.
After John congratulates him, he gives Majid some tips on how to keep his marriage alive, and tells Majid to not worry because he [John] would be getting married soon.
See John Dumelo’s message to Majid after the jump:
I’m sorry I missed your Special day yday. You know sometimes these private jets get over booked and flying commercial is stressful. But I know you had a magical “Vows Renewal” day. I’ve seen how you’ve grown to love your wife even more over the last decade even though I’ve know her longer than you.( don’t be jealous). You guys make marriage such a sweet thing and I wish you nothing but more wonderful years together. You should remember that marriage is less about marrying the right person and more about becoming the right person. When you’re having an argument, listen to understand, don’t listen to find loopholes so you can win. Marriage is either a win/win or a lose/lose. You can’t win by “beating”someone else down. Don’t forget to laugh. Most couples spend the majority of their time talking logistics: who’s doing the house shopping, who’s calling the gardener, who’s picking up the kids. A relationship can’t survive on logistics. Have a water fight instead. Don’t go to sleep when an argument hasn’t been resolved. Sometimes just an “I’m sorry” would solve everything and Majid, don’t forget to put the toilet seat up when peeing. #loveyouguys #willmarrysoontoook? #haveamelomoment
Isn’t that just beauriful advice or what?!