DON’T COOK OR WASH FOR A MAN THAT HAS NOT MARRIED YOU” is one of the preaching I won’t advise you to accept from a pastor in a singles program.
This message means that in courtship, all you do is to go from eateries to cinema to beach to parties.. Just jumping up and down, then have s*x, propose and marry.
Girls without home training have become born again just because of this message so as to fool a man into marriage.
A girl will tour all the parties and club with a guy and later go to pass the night with him giving him all the trending styles on bed and even introduce some new ones but when u tell her “baby cook for me” she will reply “my pastor said its a sin to cook for som1 who is not my husband, so if u want me to cook for u, marry me”..
*thinking* wait o.. If COOKING is a SIN, what about S*X?
if the guy had been deceived by that message, he will marry her and after some months they will divorce.. When you ask him, he will say “I married a stranger, she can’t do anything apart from attending parties”
At this point, he won’t listen to his pastors advice because it was his message that landed him in this sh*t.
The funny part is even if he reports to his pastor, his pastor will ask “didn’t u date her?…. What were you doing during courtship”
It is now he would realize that pastor has DENIED his MESSAGE.